How To Create Miracles

Miracles

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Miracles are born from absolute congruence and surrender, but only when we are in our humblest and purest states of spirit.

Miracles cannot be born from ego or goals, as these trivial things are based in physical and three-dimensional realities, which are only tangential to the creation of conditions. Miracles are born in the spirit world, then handed over to our physical positions in spacetime, with our consent. From there, we must bring them to life and keep them alive.

If you’re hankerin’ for a hunk of miracle, you need not be an altar boy, Rabbi, Priest, healer, saint, Pope, Goddess, Avatar, or perfect person.

In fact, miracles tend to fall into the laps of the people who have no powers, titles, or privileges. This is because the beaten, poor, and lonely are well-practiced in humility and transparent, heart-felt requests to the Divine.

When thinking of your miracle, you might first consider why you have not received it already. Here are the top ten reasons why your miracle evades you:

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  1. The miracles you seek might be the inverse reflections of the things that you refuse to acknowledge, heal, or address in your life.
  2. Even if for brief moments, you might not have learned how to love yourself.
  3. It’s your ego’s miracle, not your spirit’s.
  4. Your anger is in the way.
  5. The miracle you seek is in direct conflict with someone else’s pain or identity.
  6. You do not yet know how to acknowledge your feelings or process your emotions.
  7. Your miracle might be too complicated and intellectualized for it to emerge from spirit.
  8. Your pain is more valuable and nutritious to your soul than the miracle you requested.
  9. You may not have recognized a specific experience as the miracle you sought.
  10. Your karma ate your miracle.

When miracles evade us, we might be refusing to grow up.

When our love miracles don’t appear, it might be that we have yet to learn how to love ourselves. If we are seeking fame-n-fortune miracles, it might be that the natures of our souls require further pain to expand beyond their current, temporary self-identities. In this case, fame and fortune would not elevate or benefit our spirits in meaningful ways. These things would merely function as pieces of candy.

This alludes to the fact that sometimes we might have a miracle in mind, but as a result of our prayers, we’re given something completely different. We may have mastered articulating our miracle. We might even be embodying perfect humility, congruence, and surrender. But amid our devotion, the Divine hears something deeper and then administers what is necessary, and possibly more in line with our root needs and spirits.

It’s in these cases that we must trust our intentions and the precise, divine answers to our calls.

There have been millions of reported miracles throughout history. These include:

  • Apparitions
  • Physical, psychological, emotional and spiritual healings
  • Saviors
  • Bleeding icons and statues
  • Appearances and disappearances of people and objects
  • Magical shrouds and hats
  • Playful ghosts
  • Stigmata and physical abnormalities
  • Incorruptible saints and paupers
  • Astronomical and planetary manifestations
  • Births and deaths
  • Money
  • Love

While many of the more sensational miracles that emerged throughout time may have been driven by religious prophecy or wishful thinking, they are nonetheless miracles. Every time that your deepest desires and intentions appear in a physical form, it could be considered a miracle.

The most lovely miracles are born from broken hearts. These humble requests are not about promoting religion or gaining position; they are simple hopes that are stated clearly and without expectation. It’s not that expectation is not helpful; it’s just not a required ingredient when creating a miracle.

The broken heart is like a beacon to the Divine. She hears us. Immediately seeing our faces, She knows our pain and embraces us. It’s in this moment that the eternal and divine consciousness grants our wishes.

Do we have to be broken to gain access to the versatile fabric of the universe?

The reason that brokenness is helpful to us is that it puts us on our knees. In this position, we are vulnerable to love and attack. When we’re broken, we are driven by our attachments and assumptions. We’re pushed outside of our minds and into our hearts. Brokenness is how we see our true natures and experience our most enduring attributes. Without moments, weeks, years, or lifetimes of brokenness, we might never know the truth.

Are you feeling separate from the eternal fabric of reality? Are you living without knowledge of your sovereignty and might? Have you forgotten that you are made of stardust?

The reason that most of us become depressed and distracted from our truths is that we allow our egos and minds to drive the train. We’ve all heard this before, but let me take a bit further. The moment you feel low and then ponder that low position, you have already cemented it into reality. Because you allowed it, you now have to dig out of it. For most of us, there’s a way to stop the madness.

How can I move past the moment when a disconnected sadness covers my heart and eyes? How do I stop enabling this, and allowing it to take hold of my Being?

As you are falling into the dark cloud, realize that you created it and that you can un-create it. While it might not be easy, in the moment you feel a falling, reach above you and call for God’s help. Reach to the stars and beg for divine light. Realize that you are not the person falling; you are the stars and light you are beckoning.

We give our minds too much power, and like any entity in power, they take us on wild, sometimes horrible rides. It’s not that our minds are bad, it’s just that they don’t offer much value when it comes to improving our feelings and protecting our individualized divinity.

To find your miracle, soften your heart, release expectations, and feel gratitude. When you’re ready, look into the eyes of the Divine and speak to your soul.

The moment we feed the temporary self-identity that our mind’s depression creates, we have lost the battle. Once we get on the train of misery, it’s tough to truncate its trajectory. It’s like being locked in a ride at Disney, but not a good one.

Sometimes our miracle-request is simply this, “Universe, Goddess, Creation, Avatars of Light, please walk me out of the darkness so that I can feel the power, light, and love infused in my soul, blood and bones. Be with me so that I can put this old identity behind me, embody your love, and represent the eternal flame.”

Relationship Codependency—How to Relinquish Codependency In Life, Love, and Business

Two hearts to convey relationship codependency - Paul Wagner
Two hearts to convey relationship codependency - Paul Wagner

What if the very thing you believe is holding your life together is actually keeping you from being truly free? I’m talking about relationship codependency – an all-too common part of relationships, work, and everyday life. 

Many of us are (consciously or subconsciously) afraid of releasing our codependent patterns because doing so can change everything. In fact, our lives can transform to such a degree that they may become unrecognizable – at least at first. This can feel scary and uncomfortable initially. 

And yet, this transformation is exactly what is needed to bring you closer to true spiritual, emotional and psychological liberation. When you lean into the process of letting go of your codependent patterns in relationships, what emerges is greater clarity and empowerment for everyone involved.

Before we look at the process of releasing codependency, let’s define what it actually means.

What is Codependency?

Codependency is a deeply ingrained pattern of emotional or psychological reliance on other people. It manifests when you attach your sense of self to the needs, reactions and expectations of others.

From a spiritual point of view, codependent patterns are a misalignment with your true Self. When you hold onto your need for approval from others, it clouds your ability to see your own worth and it blocks you from pursuing anything that might lose you approval. 

Breaking free from codependency isn’t just about setting boundaries – it’s about seeing your Self as it truly is. Not in comparison to others. Not as a reflection of your role in their lives. But as your true, divine, liberated Self. 

Am I Codependent? Some Signs and Symptoms to Look out For

If you’re wondering whether you have codependent patterns, here are some signs to look out for:

  • You struggle to say no and set boundaries.
  • You consistently prioritize other people’s needs over your own depriving yourself of what you need.
  • You often fret over what other people think about you.
  • You find yourself carrying other people’s baggage.
  • You limit yourself so that others can feel comfortable.
  • You fear that truly being yourself will lead to losing relationships.
  • You are afraid to express yourself for fear of rocking the boat
  • You are worrying and obsessing about other people’s emotions and thoughts
  • You expect that others will take care of you or save you 

You may experience some of these more prominently than others, or only some of these. The above can be relevant for romantic relationships, friendships, business partnerships and even your relationships with clients and customers. Do you resonate with any of these?

What Causes Codependency?

Book live intuitive reading with Paul Wagner - Paul WagnerThe truth is that everyone is codependent to a certain degree. It is a natural result of our childhoods, during which we live in family units in which we are entangled with each other and dependent on each other. Social and cultural norms also tend to encourage codependent relating. Most people tend to look to others for validation and hold expectations for others in their engagements.

However, various forms of abuse, including emotional neglect, emotional, physical, verbal and sexual abuse, can cause co-dependence to be a predominant pattern in our relating and even a debilitating one.

Growing up in toxic environments leads you to create coping patterns in order to deal with the reality around you. If you grew up in a family where love felt conditional, you may have learned to earn love by being useful or pleasing to others around you. 

Without the deep work to release these coping mechanisms (so that we can engage in true Self-expression) these patterns can last a lifetime. 

The Fear of Letting Go of Codependency

The idea of letting go of codependent patterns can trigger a lot of fear. These fears can look like thoughts such as:

  • If I am truly myself, will others still love me?
  • What if setting boundaries causes me to lose important relationships?
  • If I try to negotiate better terms in an agreement, will I jeopardise my relationships? 

These fears are normal, but they are illusions. At the core of these fears is a conviction that you depend on others, and without them you won’t make it. 

When you release codependency from your life, everything becomes more clear. Letting go of codependent patterns means choosing yourself. And when you choose yourself, you empower others to do the same. This leads to interdependent relationships, with each participant showing up as their true liberated Self.

Letting go of codependency clears the emotional and energetic blockages that once held back your self-esteem, success and ability to be truly effective.

So yes, things will change. But they will change for the better.

Some people in your life will leave, and others will adjust. 

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What Happens When You Release Codependency?

When you relinquish codependency:

  • You stop carrying other people’s baggage.
  • You stop living in accordance with other people’s jealousy.
  • You begin to reject other people’s limiting projections on you.
  • You no longer worry about what other people think about you.
  • You stop limiting yourself so that others feel comfortable.
  • You stop blaming yourself for other people’s failures and deceit.
  • You stop falling when others fall. You stop failing, overall.

When you let go of codependency, you up-level our entire ecosystem. And this doesn’t just affect you as an individual. When you choose to walk the path towards true liberation, the whole Universe benefits.

In truth, you cannot know what this liberation will give you until you decide to pursue it. Codependency can block us in untold ways, making us play small in many respects in our lives. 

What Does It Mean to be Liberated?

Liberation is the release of your limiting attachments to your beliefs, emotions, relationships, identities, and the illusions they create. It extinguishes your addictions to codependence and your need for approval from others, leading to a resilient Self-identity. 

Liberation means coming home to who You truly are, as a Divine being.

In the process of liberating yourself, the Universe honors who you have become and are becoming. In doing so, your relationships will either up-level or dissolve. 

Relationships based on toxic or outdated patterns begin to evaporate into the horizon, much like any dream.

The Universe always aligns us with people and events that match with our evolving identity and energy. There is no need to worry about our relationships – they will shift as we grow.

As we walk the path of liberation, everything eventually falls into place, in its own time. It’s like a road trip – you can’t venture to Vancouver without a vehicle. And the pursuit of transcendent liberation is the vehicle for the up-leveling of your life. It’s the only vehicle that will get you to the ultimate destination – the truth of your real Self, of the divinity that resides within you.

Eventually, the concept of maintaining relationships becomes superfluous, because we start to realise that our primary relationship is not with any individual.

It’s with the Universe.

Liberation begins with a deeper understanding of our circumstances, needs and potential. If you need guidance to transform your relationships or other life circumstances, I would be honored to support you. You can book a private virtual reading with me here.