A Healing Declaration & Prayer Inviting Transformation

You are invited to make this your own in any way.


I write this to you, my love, partner, friend, and co-creator of shared life events.


I speak this aloud to the universe, knowing that all aspects of creation are connected.

Having stepped into love and light, I am in the center of happiness and truth. I regret that I didn’t have the courage or self-discipline to find such clarity earlier.

Because you were so big, vital, and important to me, I gave you much of my focus and attention. In doing so, without meaning to, I used you to train me into a mindset and vibration that separated me from me. Somehow, I believed this would be of service to everyone involved – and the universe. Please forgive me.

I loved you so much that I stayed with you for a long time. In this process, I assumed that I could find the depth of my joy and my Self, but as it turns out, this was only true for a time.

As I became more awake and aware, I learned that I couldn’t NOT be me and BE ME at the same time. I knew I had to put some space between us. This gave me the time to train myself back into alignment with who I truly am.


I love life and I feel good about myself.

I want joy and light for me and for you, always.

I will always want to see the best in you and others.


The struggle that you and I experienced caused me to forget that I love living a truthful and abundant life. In choosing our relationship over me, I became confused.

It is my responsibility to own all that I feel, which often consumes me. Please forgive the confusion that I may have introduced to our relating and home. Please forgive my less-than-perfect communications that became hurtful to you.

If we are to be fair and kind to each other, I will never hold you responsible for how you feel, and you will never hold me responsible for the way I feel. Feelings are a result of our minds and hearts responding to events. We did the best we could at the time.

My love for you is full, but now with a different purpose. I am grateful for all that I have learned through you and with you. I honor you as a beautiful mirror and I share these thoughts with love and light in my heart.

Channeled and Edited by Paul Wagner and Esther Hicks.
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About Paul

Paul Wagner is a Consciousness, Life, and Business Coach, and a 5-time EMMY-Award winning writer. He created THE PERSONALITY CARDS, a powerful Oracle and Tarot deck that’s helpful in life, love, and relationships. For years, Paul studied with Lakota elders in the Pecos Wilderness, who nurtured his empathic abilities and taught him the sacred rituals. He has degrees from Boston College in Computer Science and Psychology. Mr. Wagner has lived at ashrams with enlightened masters, including Amma, the Hugging Saint, for whom he’s delivered keynotes at Her worldwide events. Paul tours the world lecturing about personal expansion and spiritual freedom. He lovingly offers intuitive readings and inspirational coaching to help you with self-discovery, decision-making, forgiveness, and business. Book a session with Paul.


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