The Release Of A Life – A Ritual For Healing After Abortion Or Loss
To experience a deep healing and rebirth, dive deeply into ritual. This will help you release the deepest grief.
Dear Beautiful and Loving Being,
This ritual is powerful and sacred – created with love for your healing and rebirth.
If at any point you feel overwhelmed, pause and return to it with care – or reach out to me if you’d like guided support.
If something stirs, moves, or surprises you – and you feel called to go deeper – I’m here to walk with you.
Now, take a breath. Let’s begin.
A Message From the Spirit World
The soul that once lived within you still loves you – and they need to know they are loved in return.
More importantly, they need your help to be released.
If you do not fully release this soul from your energy field – especially from your root chakra – you may continue to attract people and situations that reflect unresolved grief, guilt, or confusion. These may show up in areas of:
- Creativity
- Love and intimacy
- Gender roles and dynamics
- Power struggles
- Unexplainable waves of shame or rage
When we do not release, we remain energetically bound. And when we remain bound, we cannot fully love ourselves – or anyone else.
The Ritual – What You’ll Need
- Two roses (choose ones that feel sacred or beautiful to you)
- A rosary or mala
- Your favorite prayers, written or from a prayer book
- Tissues, water, and time to yourself
1. Acquire Two Sacred Roses
Visit a florist and choose two of the most beautiful roses you can find. These will act as your offerings – one for the soul that’s passed, and one for the soul that remains (yours).
2. Choose a Sacred Location
Go to a private cemetery or quiet outdoor place. Choose a spot where you can be alone and undisturbed – ideally around sunset. Scout the space beforehand to ensure safety and solitude.
3. Open With a Prayer to the Divine
Speak aloud, or in your heart:
Dear God, I am your child, sitting before you with humility and an open heart. I once welcomed a soul into this world – and then, through the circumstances of my life, I released them before they could arrive.
I did the best I could with the awareness and capacity I had at the time.
Today I ask for your guidance and grace, so this soul may be fully free – and so I may become whole again.
I call on the saints, the avatars, the archangels, and especially Archangel Michael – to give me the courage and love I need to let go on every level. I ask you to fill any empty space within me and within this soul. May we both be restored in your light.
4. Speak to the Child With Love
Now, with the roses in front of you, speak gently and directly to the child:
My dear child, I love you. I have always loved you.
You were perfect from the moment of your conception. I felt your presence in my body, my dreams, and my heart. You were not at fault for my uncertainty or fear.
Because I was confused – about love, about life, about myself – I chose not to bring you into this world.
I acknowledge today that I have not fully let go – and that this, too, is an act of love. But now, I release you.
You no longer need to stay near me in spirit. You are free to return to the light, to fulfill your mission, to be embraced by the Divine.
Please forgive me. Please feel my love. Please be free.
I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you…
(Repeat “I love you” softly, until every grain of emotion has moved through you. Cry. Breathe. Let go.)
5. Close With Gratitude and Prayer
Offer your final words of release:
Dear God, thank you for this day and this ritual. I offer these two roses – one for the soul I have released into your care, and one for the soul that lives within me.
I ask for your love and healing. I ask for forgiveness – for myself, for the father, and for anyone involved. I release the energetic imprints of this experience and invite only peace.
Please clear the path forward. Let me live in clarity, love, and faith. Amen.
6. Leave the Roses
Leave the two roses in a hidden place as a sacred offering – one for the child, one for you. Let the spirits witness your gift.
7. Do Not Rush This Moment
Remain until your prayers are spoken, your tears are shed, and your heart feels clear. Don’t leave until you’ve:
- Cried what needs crying
- Spoken what needs speaking
- Forgiven what needs forgiving
8. When You Are Done – You Are Done
You may leave now, knowing the release is complete.
9. Walk Forward Free
Do not return in your mind to this ritual or the event itself. You are forgiven. The soul is free. You are free.
If you have questions or feel you need personal support for this healing, I am here to help.
👉 Schedule a private session with Paul here
Sending you much love,
Paul (Kalesh)
About Paul (Kalesh)
Paul Wagner is a Consciousness, Life, and Business Coach, and a 5-time EMMY Award-winning writer. He’s the creator of The Personality Cards – a powerful oracle and tarot deck that supports deep healing in life, love, and relationships. He’s also the creator of The Shankara Oracle – the most advanced divination system on Earth.
For years, Paul trained with Lakota elders in the Pecos Wilderness of New Mexico, where his empathic gifts were sharpened and his understanding of sacred ritual was deeply forged. He holds degrees in Computer Science and Psychology from Boston College – though most of his wisdom has come through raw experience, deep listening, and decades in devotion to the Divine.
Paul has lived and studied in ashrams around the world, including with Amma the Hugging Saint, for whom he’s delivered keynotes at global events. His work bridges ancient spiritual technologies with real-world clarity – without dogma, fluff, or performance.
Paul offers intuitive readings and high-impact coaching for people ready to see clearly, cut the crap, and step into their own soul authority – in relationships, business, and spiritual life.
